Just Asking

I did a series of posts a while ago about how churches are grappling with sexual orientation and one of the things that occurs to me is that I really missed an important perspective. That of gay people either brought up in church or who desire to attend church. As far as I know none of the commenters identify themselves as gay or lesbian. I would really like to read what that challenge is like. What works, what does not, how am I, as your heterosexual brother to love and serve you? I sort of implicitly hoped that such a thing might come up in the comments. So now I’m just asking straight up (no pun intended).